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In over 35 years of successfully handling divorce and family law matters, I have come to the conclusion that probably the best indicator or factor of a client's success in weathering well the divorce experience is their attitude. There is no substitute for this factor of "attitude". The "A" factor.
Divorce can be very traumatic; even for the seemingly more calm and poised individuals. And, in some states such as Maryland, public policy dictates that the procedures and steps necessary to get an absolute divorce are not easy. Marriage is encouraged; divorce not so much.
When a marriage ends, spouses and their children frequently face a tremendous strain of stressful events such as new living arrangements, scheduling changes, different responsibilities, decisions about property and money, and bills. The more successful survivors of this unfortunate ordeal will be the ones with more poise, and the "A" factor --- the better attitude.
For example, the person who possesses the "A" factor does not expect to "win" the divorce case; their attitude is to successfully "survive" the difficult divorce process. There is very rarely a case where a party can be truly said to win a divorce. Raw emotion rarely aids your chances of success (i.e., getting what you want). Tempestuous decision-making never helps. One should never make important decisions in the divorce process without thinking them through carefully and consulting their attorney. Do not believe everything other people tell you about their divorce. Your divorce situation is unique to you and your circumstances. Every divorce is different and unique. And, keep your eye on the "big picture". Focus on where you go and what you do after the divorce is completed.
Keep a good "A" factor; keep a good attitude.
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